I’ve never really fitted into traditional systems.

School, work, routines, even the way society tells us to live — none of it has ever felt like it was designed with me in mind.

Part of that is being late-diagnosed ADHD. Part of it is being peri-menopausal. And part of it is just… me. I spent years trying to force myself into structures that weren’t built for me, and surprise — it didn’t work.

Why astrology made sense

Astrology gave me something I’d been missing: a framework that didn’t demand I be someone else. It’s not about following strict rules or ticking boxes — it’s about noticing patterns, cycles, and energy in a way that makes sense for you.

Each New and Full Moon shifts the focus. Each eclipse highlights something bigger, something longer-term. And the best bit? You don’t need to be perfect or consistent. You just need to notice. That awareness alone changes things.

Eclipses: a structure that works

Eclipses aren’t like regular Moons. They’re stronger, more fated, and they link back to stories that started years ago. For me, eclipses became a kind of scaffolding.

Instead of trying to squeeze myself into systems that didn’t fit, I could tune into cycles that were already there. I didn’t have to create structure from scratch — it was built into the sky. All I had to do was pay attention.

And that’s been a game-changer for someone whose brain doesn’t play by “standard” rules and whose body is going through hormonal chaos. Eclipses give me perspective. They remind me there’s timing and rhythm in life, even when everything feels messy.

Astrology you can actually live with

This is why I wrote Eclipse Energies.

Not as another complicated astrology manual, but as something you can actually use — practical, simple, beautiful. A book you can pull out every eclipse season to check what’s being activated in your chart, and use journaling prompts and card spreads to go deeper if you want to.

Because astrology shouldn’t feel like another system you’re failing at. It should be a tool you can live with.

Explore Eclipse Energies here →

Astrologically Yours

Sarah 💜